Questions & Answers
This week we decided to answer some questions that you all may have about having a prosthetic or using one. We had some very good questions come in and we are very happy to answer them for you as best we can.
The first question we had was: "Will John be able to run and goof off like he used to?"
The answer to that is absolutely yes. While things may be more complicated and take a little longer to master John will most definitely be able to run and play. He actually has been able to jog for short distances already. The most important thing about him learning to jog and run is not over working his residual limb. Basically he needs to build his tolerance on the limb so he can jog/run farther. At the moment the limb will become sore very quickly, but it is awesome to see progress!
The next question we had was: Will the prosthesis change as you get more mobile and will you need different types of feet in order to run climb etc.?
The answer to this question is yes. The foot that John has right now enables him to walk and run. The only issue with the running is that the foot is not specifically designed for long distance running. So this foot will not serve him best for that specific need. Eventually we will work with our practitioner to get a running blade. As far as other activities such as lawn care, driving, ramps, small hills etc... John is able to accomplish those with his foot he has now.
The next question we had was: "What has been the hardest part about adjusting to life with a prosthetic?"
This question was directed to John and his answer was learning to drive and having to wear shorts basically all the time. The reason driving is difficult is because you don't have the movement/control of your ankle to use the gas pedal or brakes. This means all movement is done with the knee. It is basically learning to drive a completely knew way. The shorts are obviously an inconvenience at the current moment because it is winter and also it is nice to have a variety of options. You may be wondering, "Why are you wearing shorts?". The answer to that is because there are so many adjustments needing to be made during the day. This requires access to the entire thigh area and is easier done in shorts than pants. Wearing pants requires finding a bathroom and basically disrobing to make adjustments, which isn't as practical. We are in the process of getting some pants altered with zippers so John can wear jeans if he wants.
Another question asked was: "How often does the prosthetic come up in the typical married couple teasing each other?"
This question is a little difficult to answer because I believe every couple is completely different and each amputee is different. There is some teasing that does occur between John and myself. Also just some things that I think are pretty funny getting used to. Like walking into the living room and just seeing a leg freestanding. It takes you completely off guard and freaks you out, because no one expects to just see a leg standing somewhere. John and myself try to keep a pretty positive and upbeat attitude about the whole process. I must stress the issue that I try to be very conscious about Johns feelings, because this is in fact him losing his leg and it isn't always fun and upbeat.
The last question was asked while were out and about the other day and an elderly gentleman approached us. He proceeded to ask how John felt about the mechanical look of his leg and if he liked the appearance of it. He then stated, "The reason I'm asking is because I am an amputee myself and I have preferred the more natural looking prosthesis." He showed us his leg and why he liked the look of it. It seemed to help him mentally with the way his brain perceived his leg and with the coping process of limb loss. All that to say we were more than happy to meet another amputee and chat for a while.
The main reason I bring this up is because we would love to answer anyones questions. If you see us out and about don't be afraid to ask a question about John's leg. We would be happy to chat with you anytime.
The last thing I want to add on here is John had an appointment on Friday and it went extremely well! They basically told John he doesn't need to come back in unless he starts having issues. They were very pleased with his progress. They also want him to come back to meet some other people because they believe John will be an encouragement to others with the progress he has made.
Also don't forget John's benefit this Saturday. If you can make it out that would be great! The information for the benefit is on my Facebook page!
Thank you so much for your love and prayers!
Excellent post. You both are so encouraging and inspiring to me and I'm sure to many others. Seems a tad backward and ironic. God is good and works in mysterious ways. Love you both. Keep serving and praising Him.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Barb!! You have been such a blessing to us and we are so grateful to have you as family!!
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